responsibility

how much responsibility should a person take for another person's actions? How much attention is enough? most of all, how much patience should a person have for another?

How much influence and control shld one hv over another person? How much ctrl shld one hv of him/herself?

am i jus lashing becoz of my work? maybe? maybe not? i'm actually calmer doing my work..even though i know it's tight.

i even starting a little swearing here n there..in circumstances- that i made an effort to quit so many years ago.

i'm losing my patience? someone kill me.